Coffee and S-E-X (Love)- they are the same!
Wow, catchy title huh? You are probably wondering, what the heck are you talking about Christy… Coffee and Love?
Well, they both are better when they are HOT! Most of us deserve and yearn for LOVE just like most of us do for Coffee. We feel the NEED and the WANT! It is natural for our bodies and mind to crave love. Whether it is sex or just the need to feel loved.
Speaking of, have you read; The 5 love languages by Gary Chapman?
I have always struggled with my marriage relationship. We have tried talking, Counseling and many other things. Things would be okay for awhile and then go right back to where they were. When I read this AMAZING book, it opened up my eyes! I had an “AHA Moment”!! This all makes sense now!
Making sense of it all!
So I recommend to read the ENTIRE book and don’t just skim through it. Read it entirely. Once you get to the end of the book, it will all makes sense to you! At the end of the book there is a treat for you, something that I guarantee will change your relationship.
How to EXPRESS heartfelt commitment.
It is a self help book that helps you discover your love language so you can improve your relationships.
Basically there are 5 LOVE languages that we speak. Learning your love language and also learning what your partners is, makes a HUGE difference in your relationship. All these years I couldn’t understand how my husband at times didn’t feel loved or supported from me. I cooked, cleaned,took care of the kids, made sure that I always looked nice for him. We had sex and we would spend time together and he STILL didn’t feel fully loved.
Well, I wasn’t speaking HIS exact LOVE LANGUAGE!
Love Language
My husband is a dedicated man, he works hard and provides us with a good life, home, car and materialistic things and he thought that’s what he was supposed to do. At times I felt that I wasn’t appreciated as much as I should be. Well… he wasn’t speaking MY love language!
I REALLY want to tell you MORE and why…but I don’t want to spoil the book. Once you read it, try to guess what our love languages are! Feel free to comment below and share with me what you think they are and share your results with me!
Your local library may have the book available, but I highly recommend you check it out. Here is a link to purchase it
The author also has a few other books available that are good reads-
I wish you luck on finding the perfect balance…whether its a cup of HOT coffee or a mellow iced latte. Find your LOVE language!
What are some ways you communicate with your significant other? Comment below… I would love to hear!
Keep it HOT! xo Christy
